Friday, September 01, 2006

Wish me luck

It's P-day (Sorta like D-day, but we're talking the parental units...lol)... Tonight we're going over to my parent's house for dinner. They have seen me dressed up last year on Halloween, and are used to ther Rocky Horror in my post-high school days. I intend to tell my parents that I am a cross dresser. It shouldn't come as a shock to them, but I think my dad will be the one that takes it hardest. He's not Mr. Macho, but he is the one that will feel like he did something wrong, he should have ben there more when I was growing up, etc. I plan on telling them that No, I'm not gay -  No, I don't want a sex change - No, they did nothing wrong - that I was hard wired this way from birth. This is who I really am. I am not going to show up as Heather to do this. I think that would be a mistake. I know they have noticed my 3" heeled boots that I wear regularly (2 different pairs) but they have never said anything. I think it will go somewhat smoothly, but it is scary at the same time. I'm a little nervous, but I have my facts straight and know what I am talking about - I proved this with the DYFS worker last month. Once my parents know the truth (or is it once I confirm their suspicions?), I will be more free to CD whenever I want and go out in public without fear of something going wrong. My one neighbor works at the same school as my mom, so there is a fair chance that she has heard some things already from the neighbor. Any advice is appreciated from those that have been there.
 
Wish me luck tonight. I'll post an update tomorrow or maybe late tonight depending on how it goes.
 

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Good Luck...