Went out

I just wanted to share again. Last night after doing my nails for Halloween
today (fake nails, I'm going all out) in a nice bright red, my wife said she
wanted to send me out to gas up her car & get some wine. I told her that it
would mean sending Heather out in town (we have a rule against it for her
sanity). She said 'I know, it's ok'. Of course that is all it took, I was
dressed and ready to head out in 1/2 hour. I wore a nice fluffy pink top,
black knee length skirt, tan stockings, and red heels. I went to the liquor
store and bought a few bottles of wine. The store was busy, several cars
pulled in right after I did. Of course this didn't stop me, I went in and
did my shopping without so much as a glance form anyone. I was a GG as far
as they were concerned. Even at the gas station (in NJ it is illegal to pump
your own gas, for some unknown reason) the gas attendant didn't give me any
looks, except to check out the chick (the wedding band & engagement ring
usually stops them from anything else). It was a brief outing, but totally
successful. Today Heather goes to work! :)

Makeup test

Halloween

Well, tomorrow is Halloween. I plan on going to work Dressed & taking my daughter out as well. It should be a good day for it. I can't wait.

Makeup

Makeup
Originally uploaded by heathercd_2005.

New album

I just posted album #19. This one is just a few misc. pics of me.

My outing today.

I had a wonderful outing today and I just had to share.

Today I was supposed to go shopping en femme with my wife, but she just
started a new job and had to work. I took our daughter to daycare at about
8am this morning. I then came home and got changed for my day of shopping. I
wore black thong panties, dark pantyhose, dark blue low rise boot cut jeans,
white bra, white camisole, white V neck top with lacing at the V. I also
wore large hoop earrings and my white ankle boots with the pointy toe & 3"
stiletto heel, leather jacket. I headed for the goodwill in Cherry Hill to
do some shopping. I spent about 2 hours shopping and bought 6 tops & 2 pairs
of shoes. Not a single person gave me any looks at all. I then went to a
shop to buy my wife some scrubs for her new job. The sales lady didn't give
me any funny looks and we actually had a conversation about what I was
looking for. If she figured me out, she didn't let on at all. Next I went to
Kohl's to look around. While I was browsing the discount rack I think I was
made by a girl & her mom, but can't be certain of that. Otherwise nobody
gave me a second look at all. It was great. I stopped at a Wawa to grab a
sandwich & a drink on the way home. I didn't notice any odd looks at all,
even from the guy that held the door for me.

Joke...

A wealthy couple had planned to go out for the evening. The woman
of the house decided to give their butler, Jeeves, the rest of
the night off. She said they would be home very late, and that he
should just enjoy his evening.

As it turned out, however, the wife wasn't having a good time at
the party, so she came home early, alone. Her husband had to stay
with the others since several of his important clients were
there.

As the woman walked into her house, she saw Jeeves sitting by
himself in the dining room. She called for him to follow her, and
led him into the master bedroom. She then closed and locked the
door.

She looked at him and said, "Jeeves, take off my dress." He did
this carefully. "Jeeves," she continued, "take off my stockings
and garter." He silently obeyed her. "Jeeves," she then said,
"remove my bra and panties." As he did this, the tension
continued to mount.

She looked at him and then said, "Jeeves, if I ever catch you
wearing my clothes again, you're fired!"
 

Spent a day en feme

Well, Friday I actually spent most of my day en femmme since I was a home
watching my daughter. I'm hoping for more opportunities to do this in the
near future. I think I may actually take next Monday off and go shoe
shopping with my wife en femmme. :)

A good experience

I had a good experience on Saturday. I was dressed up in jeans, go-go boots over the jeans, white V-neck top. We had someone come over to pick up some stuff that we were giving away. I answered the door, talked to her for a minute & gave her the stuff that she came for. She never gave me a second look, and I suspect that she may not have even noticed that I was a guy in drag. Now that made me feel good. I just wish my wife would have been there to see it.

 

This is just wrong....

But funny

Goodie Bag TV: Do You Take It?

Its kind of funny

It's kind of funny... This morning I had to show my wife the proper way to
put lipstick on. She fell into the trap that many women seem to fall into
and never really learned how to put it on & look good. After I showed her
how I do it, even she noticed how much better she looked. :)

Interesting development

The timing of what happened the night before last was probably ideal. It seems that the incident opened up my wife's eyes to a whole part of her childhood that she had not really thought about. It so happened that she had an appointment with her councillor yesterday, and this topic was one of the ones that was brought up. Her councilor agreed that my decision to separate that side of me from our relationship was actually a very good decision and would more than likely strengthen our relationship. The incident also made my wife realize a few things about herself that she did not see, and it seems to have actually released some stress that she has been building for many years as a result of her family life. All in all the outcome is very positive, and my wife is now seeing a way to deal with some things that have haunted her since childhood.

 

For me this means that I now have the freedom to find a Master/Mistress to play with. This will be a big relief for me, because I am much more heavily into BDSM than my wife is. My wife has really tried over the years, but it just isn't who she is.

Lipstick lesson..

Ya gotta love this principal.

According to a news report, a certain private school in Washington was
recently faced with a unique problem. A number of 12-year-old girls were
beginning to use lipstick and would put it on in the bathroom. That was
fine, but after they put on their lipstick they would press their lips to
the mirror leaving dozens of little lip prints. Every night the maintenance
man would remove them and the next day the girls would put them back.
Finally the principal decided that something had to be done. She called all
the girls to the bathroom and met them there with the maintenance man. She
explained that all these lip prints were causing a major problem for the
custodian who had to clean the mirrors every night. To demonstrate how
difficult it had been to clean the mirrors, she asked the maintenance man to
show the girls how much effort was required. He took out a long-handled
squeegee, dipped it in the toilet, and cleaned the mirror with it. Since
then, there have been no lip prints on the mirror.

There are teachers.... and then there are educators.

Ouch....

My wife has tried for years to be my Mistress with mixed results. I always felt that it really wasn't in her but part of me at the same time kept hoping that she would figure it out. Well, last night she got into a bit of the Domme mood and I was really excited because she really got into it. Well, one thing led to another and I guess she got frustrated with me and her upbringing started to come out. Let's just say that her parents were a little more on the physical side when it comes to discipline, and I actually got to the point where I just curled up into a ball to get her to stop. Needless to say I was not happy and she got mad & walked out of the room. I guess the way to describe how I felt was like the dog that has been kicked one too many times. I couldn't believe it, this was my wife I felt this way about. We have never had an issue before, and most of the time have a fun time when we play. I guess the frustrations of her being unemployed, etc. finally got the best of her. My wife is the first person to be worried about hurting me when we do play, so this totally shocked me, and I think I finally connected with a piece of her past and can understand a little more about why she is the way she is. After I calmed down, I talked to her for a while and came to a decision. In the future we are going to limit our play to casual play, no more Mistress & slave for us. I want to find a Mistress (or Master) who is sane and really knows what the title means. This way I can get that side and the more intense play out of my system, and focus more on the lighter stuff with my wife. I need to separate the 2 sets of interest and told my wife that she should not feel like she has to be my Mistress to make me happy, that I am happy with her being who she is, not someone that she isn't.

 

I guess time will tell how this one plays out, but I am hoping it is for the best.