I did a good deed last night

Last night we had a Ladies Night Out at a local hotel. I'd say we had about 40
girls and several spouses and admirers there. Partway through the evening I saw
a guy sitting at the bar kind of in the middle of the girls. Every time I would
look in his direction I saw that he was looking at me and would look away to a
TV overhead when I looked. I figured he was probably an admirer or such and
didn't want his secret to get out. After a bit I decided I would go over and say
something to him, even if it was to educate him as to who we were and why we
dress like women. I walked over to him and said "It doesn't look like you're
having enough fun". He got this embarrassed look on his face since he knew he
had been caught looking. I politely conversed with him and got out of him that
he was actually a closeted cross-dresser who just happened to stop in for a
drink that night. He told me that his wife was open to his cross-dressing but
that he didn't think he was passable enough to go in public enfemme. I looked at
his face and told him that he could pass well enough and would be welcomed in
our group in either mode if he cared to join us. His wife was working but
expected home soon so he said he might have to get her & return. About an hour
later he did come back enfemme with his wife. I invited them to join my wife & I
at a table where we were chatting with friends. They stayed all evening and
seemed to have a great time. I am so glad I decided to say something to him, he
probably would have left and not come back if I had not.