have always made. I never deal with issues through a third party for a
good reason. If you follow my blog, you will remember an issue that came
up a little while ago regarding my best friend and another friend.
Supposedly the other friend had some big issues with Heather and the way
that I present when in male mode to the point of not wanting to be there
when I am there. Whenever a problem is relayed through a third party
there is always some personal belief/opinion that creeps into the
re-telling of a story. I take the stance that if the problem really
exists, the source will have to bring it to me directly or I don't want
to deal with it. Well, it looks like my philosophy proved to be dead on
last night.
You see, I had the chance to talk to the other friend face to face last
night for a few minutes. What he told me surprised me to say the least.
He informed me that he had no issues with Heather at all. He said that
he is very secure in his sexuality and that personally, my
cross-dressing did not bother him in the slightest bit. He even went so
far as to suggest that he & his wife and my best friend & his wife
should get together with my wife & Heather some evening and go out for a
few drinks or whatever so that they can get to meet Heather in person.
He has never seen a picture of Heather before so I showed him one or 2
that I keep on my phone for just this reason. His response was kind of
funny... "Wow, I thought for sure that you would be fugly (no that is
not a typo, he really said that)... Not bad!" So it looks like Heather
will be making getting an introduction to yet more friends who are
curious to meet her sometime in the near future.
It looks as if my best friend may have been interjecting some of his
personal issues into his interpretation of the events around him. I am
glad he is starting to see the light.
To my friend: Thank you for not letting this die. We will eventually
get to the root of the issues and all will be well with the world. :)
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